The TRUIzM Way

On Sabbatical, wef 21 July 2008

2008-07-21T23:49:00.000+08:00

Regrets to inform that I, the owner and sole reviewer of The TRUIzM Way, will be decreasing my review sessions dramatically, as of immediate effect, due to a sudden entourage of required reading materials that I need to fulfill at this point in time.

Having said that, however, is not to imply that TRUIzM will be closed prematurely. Rather, TRUIzM will not be updated as regularly as previous.

My deepest regrets and apologies extended, I do still welcome comments, recommendations and suggestions.

Thank you.

A (Hoax and) Honor Lost for Norma Khouri

2008-06-24T11:43:00.000+08:00

August 29, 2004
A Hoax and Honor Lost for Norma Khouri
By Ali Abunimah

Full story at http://www.zmag.org/znet/viewArticle/7966

Excerpts:-
“A sensational book that purported to tell the "true" story of the murder of a young Jordanian woman by her father because she dared to date a Christian man has been exposed as a fraud… This has been a hard road, as Rana Husseini, (an investigative journalist at the Jordan Times) explained by telephone from Amman: "I have always been accused of tarnishing Jordan's image, of washing dirty laundry in public. But I have always been very careful to explain that honor killing is not part of the Muslim religion ...." Husseini pointed out that the practice also occurs among Christian families.“

Honor Lost

2008-06-23T20:58:00.004+08:00

HONOR LOST

Author: Norma Khouri

To: Ms Norma Khouri
Email: honourcrimes@lycos.com

My heart ached for your unfortunate loss and for your unfortunate circumstance whilst you were in back in your home country. It is ironical that one feels threatened in her very own motherland, when it should be the basis of security and the abode of deep belonging.

However, I have to admit, as I read HONOR LOST page to page, I am deeply disturbed and saddened at the way you have portrayed Islam - very akin to the portrayal by the Western media. Your (mis)interpretation of this otherwise beautiful and solid religion could be misled by your faith (Christianity) – perhaps, I could take that into account. But then again, for one who has lived side by side for most of your early adult life to Muslims, and one who is educated (that you are able to pen HL and worked on its eventual publication), it is very sad that you have written Chapter Seven the way it was.

The entire Chapter was mostly, if not all, on your (wrong) understanding of Islam – your interpretations of the beautiful verses in the Holy Koran were grossly distorted. From where you gather all these from, I wonder.

You insisted that a verse from the Holy Koran is the source of the rampant honor killings in your country. You stated that the word ‘scourge’ has been made to meant ‘kill’ by the ‘Arab men’. And thus, this explains how honor killings are made legal and tolerated in Jordan.

Further on, you stated how the religion controls one’s actions – I quote from your book – ‘it tells Muslims when and how to have sex and when and how to refrain from it, what to possess and what to give away, when to sleep and when to wake, when to speak and when to remain silent, what and how to east and to dress and how to seek knowledge.’

It disturbs me that while you criticized the religion; you have failed to go beyond these stated ‘controls’. Don’t you ask yourself, Why?

The sentence – ‘Since Mohammed’s followers took Mecca by force … Islam has been filled with wars and bloody battles’ is much distorted. Obviously, you have not made an attempt to study the history of this religion. I will not go into details, but I will leave you with this – are you aware that in all so-called ‘wars and bloody battles’, the Believers never outnumbered the enemy?

I may share your anguish as a woman trapped in old-aged customs and as one who has lost a very good sister (in your friend) but your lack of understanding, and your insolence by spreading the distorted truth about Islam have made me, and I’m sure many other Muslims as well, very indifferent to your cause.

The way I view it, the unfortunate circumstance that befalls upon the women in your country has got nothing to do with the religion – a fact that even you admit, that as a Christian woman there, you were also subjected to the same treatment. It is very apparent that customs and traditions, which are unique to each group, tribe, race or nation, are the real culprits.

While your book has kept me on my toes, for various reasons, I have to state that most parts of it are totally untrue, especially in your references to Islam.

Here I am, a Muslim woman, in another part of the world. I face none of what you have stated. With pride (and it’s my choice), I cover my hair and most parts of myself, when I venture out to work. Yes, I do work, earn my own money, and this is even on top of receiving shelter and protection from my husband. The house that I live in is in my name and I have a driving license.

And if you have studied Islam deeper, and rightfully, you would know that the Prophet once said that Paradise is at the feet of a mother – who else, but a woman. In Islam, a woman has the highest rights and easiest ways to achieve entrance to Paradise.

If only you knew.

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What do you call a book that seeks to reveal the truth, but at the same time, is full of untruths?

You Don't Know Jack

2008-05-09T13:44:00.013+08:00

YOU DON’T KNOW JACK
Author: Erin McCarthy

Hardly into Chapter Two, I have already given up. Too much lust, and it comes from all directions. This may be the norm for my Western counteraprts but hey, I have my limitations and tolerance. A book like this, I cannot stomach. Chuck!

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I was embarrassed just by reading the first few chapters. The heroine was so.. so.. ‘cheap’!

Running Away From Richard

2008-05-09T13:18:00.010+08:00

RUNNING AWAY FROM RICHARD

Author: Chris Manby

It’s getting slightly better this time. Unfortunately, I got this book before the prequel ‘Lizzie’s Jordan Secret Life’. But no matter - the way the story flowed, I was able to follow up very nicely. But, really, after reading the sequel now, I have even less desire to read the prequel. Naturally.

Ok, that aside, this one here had a slow and sluggish start, but once Lizzie jumps ship and sets sail to Hollywood, that’s where the fun AND CHARADE begin. As with many of Ms Manby’s books, this one here has a happy (and convenient and predictable) ending, albeit with a tragic and dramatic start.

Regretfully, there are hardly any hidden plots or twists – it’s pretty straightforward and it failed to make me gasp or my jaw dropped to the ground. However, it is quite a comic – especially this character called Fat Joe – and the scenes set in Hollywood are pretty realistic, what with silicon boobs, transvestites and all.

In fact, I dare say, if this book is made into a movie, it would be a killer.

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It’s getting there. Slowly, but hopefully surely.

Losing My Virginity

2008-05-03T22:28:00.006+08:00

LOSING MY VIRGINITY
Author: Richard Branson

Hubs was the one who passed the book on to me – a paperback that is a good 3 inches thick. I drooled as I took in the thickness (I love endless stories) and I was definitely salivating when I found out that it was an autobiography – my favourite genre.

Richard Branson needs little introduction, of course. But what I did know about him, prior to reading this bare-all bio, was nowhere near to reality, if the book could be taken at each and every word’s value.

In a nutshell, I used to think that here was an eccentric man who was fearless in doing ANYTHING at all, so long as what he did would put the brand Virgin on the map. That much was true, as I learned in the book, but what I eventually discovered were the reasons why he did certain extreme antics and most importantly, the endless struggle and courageous fight that he and his team put up just to keep Virgin afloat.

Mr Branson painted himself as a fighter who would try anything at least once in his life, and appeared to be a very temperamental man, a gentleman who rarely lost his temper – much like Hubs, actually, in the later respect. And in this bio, he obviously did not try to hide any skeleton at all. It was a truly no-holds barred book, even when it came down to his personal and sexual life – yes, the title says it all, actually. Written in the first person, the bio is truly enjoyable, engaging and the thickness of it guarantees a good read for at least 1.5 weeks. Mr Branson is able to laugh at himself shamelessly, and in doing so, you just could not help but to like the man!

Once, during his attempt to get the prestigious Blue Ribbon back for Britain, he managed to get Esso to sponsor his trip. At a dinner with Esso, while giving a toast, he thanked them profusely and elaborately – and during all these while, mistakenly calling them BP (Esso’s rival) in his speech.

The only downside of this book was that there were too much of incomprehensible market and share talk – so much so that at times, I was lost along the way due to my zilch knowledge in the stock industry.

THE TRUIzM
Grab it when you next see it in the library. Until then, discard what you think you knew about Mr Branson. You ain’t seen (or read) nothing yet – till you devour this bio.

The Soul of the Quran

2008-04-21T23:39:00.015+08:00

THE SOUL OF THE QURAN
Author: Saniyasnain Khan

I first read this book way back in January 2007. And now even after re-reading it, I am still mesmerized by the splendor of the passages.

A very easy read, this book contains a range of beautiful prayers from the Holy Quran. The author has brilliantly and successfully captured the essence of the Holy Book by the careful selection of the surahs. The words are lyrical, beautiful, moving and very apt.

I’ve once blogged about this book in 2007. And the contents, to this day, remain to be true. Here’s the excerpt:-

“The selected verses are short, simple and I do not know, at the time I was reading it, I was moved by the contents. It was as if God was speaking to me, to be strong, to have faith, to be thankful and to forever bear Him in mind and soul in what I do. I read the book, cover to cover, in an hour and 45 minutes, in one seating. I was THAT mesmerized by what I read. It’s like as if God knows that I was going through a bad time and therefore led me to ‘discover’ the book sitting quietly on my shelf. The thing is, I have noticed the book many a times, but I was never moved to even take it out and flip it. I do not know why last Friday, 5th January 2007 I somehow glanced at the book spine, lifted my arm and very easily took it down. I browsed through while heading to the sofa in my living room and before I was sitting down, I was already reading Page 2. I do not know why but definitely God does..”

For full blog, go to:

http://dvahaven.spaces.live.com/?_c11_BlogPart_BlogPart=blogview&_c=BlogPart&partqs=amonth%3d1%26ayear%3d2007

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A must-have in every home library for the occasional perk-me-up sessions. Go to your nearest bookstore and begin the hunt. Also serves as a brilliant gift for that someone who needs spiritual motivation.

Second Prize

2008-04-20T21:42:00.007+08:00

SECOND PRIZE
Author: Chris Manby

Finally, Ms Manby manages to please me with this one. Not too much though, regretfully, but definitely notches higher than Girl Meets Ape and Matchbreaker.

The plot here is very thin, and you could guess the epilogue as you prod on. Zero marks for the surprises category. The heroine, Lara Fenton, is pretty likeable, but at the same time, very gullible AND desperate. Sometimes, I find myself sympathizing with her and her sorry circumstances but at times, I wish I could just grab her shoulders and shake her till her eyes roll in her head and make her smell the coffee.

The story is straightforward and Ms Manby manages to inject humor where it should. The hilarity is not overdone and the dialogues are witty and the scenes appear real. Often, I found myself smiling or bursting in short spurts of laughter as I was reading it.

The TRUIzM
A good read, especially after the TND flop. This book also resurrects my first impression of Ms Manby’s ability as a writer.

The Nanny Diaries

2008-04-13T22:27:00.003+08:00

THE NANNY DIARIES

Author: Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus

Hubs was the one who singled out this book to me while we were both browsing at a library. I took a peek at the synopsis and decided that taking care of a 4-year old would be something that I could relate to, and thus, something that I would enjoy reading.

Wrong.

I did not know that this book has spawned a movie, starring Scarlett Johansson, in 2007. But even if I did, it makes no difference.

It could be that I am not familiar with this nanny industry in the US, to be precise Manhattan. Going by the book, it appears to be a career, complete with a uniform and the usual stereotype – soft-spoken, dark-skinned and introvert players. However, it truly does not matter, because if the authors can pen a somewhat realistic background with an attached story, readers would be able to follow suit.

That – it did not happen in TND. I found the authors, former nannies themselves, rambling on and on blindly and even in the first chapter, the story was moving so fast, and detached, that I was unable to follow.

It was about Nan – even the name I was not sure, was it short for Nanny? Or really her name was Nan? – who part-timed as a nanny for the extra spending money while in school. Nan, however, was unfortunate to be working for the X family (oh please, surely X is not a family name?), who seemed to look upon (or down on) her as a family helper of sorts. Her charge, Grayer, appeared determined to make her life a living hell as well.

As a book, the story starts here and stops there and then picks itself again, and then stops abruptly. Even the termination of a former nanny was not being elaborated, so much so that I simply had no idea how Nan suddenly came into the picture. Mrs X first appeared as a likeable character, but she suddenly changed into a monster in the very next chapter. Characters in this book are so flawed; I did not know how was what or who was why.

Didn’t get my drift? I didn’t get the book either.

The TRUIzM

Oh sod it. Don’t even bother flipping through the pages.

The Places in Between

2008-04-09T21:24:00.004+08:00

THE PLACES IN BETWEEN
Author: Rory Stewart

I grabbed this book barely an hour before I was due to embark on my own travelogue, or to be more precise, drivelogue – my trip from Johor to Trengganu on wheels, in late March 08.

I thought it would be the perfect companion (read: both on travels) in my foray across several states.

I was wrong. I was unable to read even a page during my 3-day drive. However, once I was back and have settled down to my normal routine, the book quickly became a constant companion.

My drivelogue is, obviously, nothing compared to Mr Stewart’s, a Scottish journalist – who WALKED across Afghanistan during the times when Taliban had just collapsed and whose journey took months, as it was part of an even longer route. He was adamant to follow in Babur’s (the first Emperor of Mughal India) steps in conquering the vast country on FOOT and while doing so, he successfully provides a travel narration that is engaging, witty and very much alive. His quirky writings enable you to see Afghanistan the way he saw it – sometimes, I swear, you could even smell the freshly-cooked naan and feel the scorching heat, and the biting cold.

It certainly helps that prior to TPIB, I have read a handful of stories that were set in Afghanistan. The places that Mr Stewart traveled to were so familiar, and I found that I could relate to the climate, the people and the culture.

TPIB reveals Mr Stewart’s love and deep respect for Afghanistan, and especially how he was very certain that he would somehow ended up ALIVE at the end of his trip, despite him being the very icon that the Afghans would love to hate.

I admire Mr Stewart’s ability in bringing to life a very huge country, with an equally colorful history and millions of shades in the characters that peopled this nation, via such powerful and invoking narration.

The TRUIzM
This book is not only a travelogue, nor a novelist’s blind banter on his travels. This is a book about the true people of the real Afghan – its beauty, its history and its progress, or lack of. Above all, it is also a testament on the bountiful hospitality of the Afghan people and of Mr Stewart’s courage and guts in conquering this beautiful realm.

The Matchbreaker

2008-03-28T10:25:00.003+08:00

Oh! I've forgotten to mention one thing - Singapore is being mentioned in this book. I guess Ms Manby does know her geographics.

The Matchbreaker

2008-03-24T22:52:00.006+08:00

THE MATCHBREAKER
Author: Chris Manby

You would have thought that I’d learn my lesson since my last foray with Ms Manby’s book, Girl Meets Ape. But no, I was adamant.

This time, it is not that painful, though TM is not as satisfying as READY OR NOT? The only reason I think this is because TM is being narrated in the first person’s perspective. I always find stories written in this manner much more fluid, real and personal.

Lindsey Parker is definitely not someone I would like to have as a friend. Extremely pampered and spoilt, to the extent that she almost ruins others’ lives unconsciously. She learns about life, respect, growing up and most essentially, about the importance of not sticking her nose where it should not be in the first place.

An amusing twist exists in this book, though I could recognize the slight bump early on – this, of course, takes away much of the surprise when all is finally revealed in the end.

However, there is an added drama almost at the very end, that made my jaw opened slightly bigger than usual.

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My only conclusion is Ms Manby can really weave a darn book story, but only if she is feeling up to it. She continues to be hilarious – you will smile at certain scenes – but above all, TM does not provide the ‘high’ that I got from RON. Having said that. TM is notches better than GMA.

A Thousand Splendid Suns

2008-03-19T20:55:00.004+08:00

A THOUSAND SPLENDID SUNS

Author: Khalid Hosseni

After a spellbinding tale in his first book, The Kite Runner, Mr Hosseni once more spins an ALMOST similarly delicious and engaging saga in A Thousand Splendid Suns. Delicious yes, but the aftertaste leaves a thousand unanswered questions.

Unlike TKR, which is written from a first person’s point of view, thus I found easier to be immersed in the character’s mind, ATSS is being told mainly from two women’s perspectives. Often, as the reader, I have had to switch gears in order to follow their train of thoughts.

The story is pretty predictable. And there’s hardly any hidden plot or intricate twist (as you would find in TKR). And when I was done with it, I did not find have the satisfying burp, as you would after a fine, delectable cuisine.

I’ve voiced out the many WHYs to Hubs, who has read the book, and even after discussing about it, albeit briefly, I am still unsatisfied. I felt the characters could have done what they eventually did much earlier in the story. And the near-conclusion – I have to ask – if it is being set during the Taliban era, I would imagine that it would not be so easy for a lone and poor woman with children in tow to move from one county to another.

Those apart, ATSS does not disappoint, especially in highlighting the restricted movement allowed for women during the Taliban era. I marvel at how Mr Hosseni, being a man, can be so sensitive and sympathetic to the plight of these unfortunate women. I will always remember the scene where one character has to endure a Caesarian surgery without any anesthesia (only hospitals for men were equipped with drugs and the proper medical instruments) – how she fought, how she struggled, and how she hang on before eventually letting the world hear the pain she was undergoing.

The TRUIzM
ATSS fails to move me as much as TKR, over which I cried oceans. However, I would still recommend this, as the engaging storyline, though predictable, is being weaved in a very intricate and beautiful manner. It is a waste not to devour it.

Girl Meets Ape

2008-03-04T21:46:00.006+08:00

GIRL MEETS APE
Author: Chris Manby

You’ve heard me rant and rave about Chris Manby. You’ve heard me sing praises about that one particular first-book-first-love that I chanced upon. Eagerly, I added her name to my list of must-read books by chosen authors.

So what did I do? I dived in straight to the next book by Ms Manby that I saw on the shelf. And oh boy, what a ride it was. Downhill, I meant.

I do not know which book did Ms Manby write first – Girl Meets Ape or Ready or Not? My guess, and my hope, is that the she wrote the former. If this is the first book, then at least she is getting better.

What a major disappointment in GMA. Heroine Jennifer Niederhauser is a total let-down. Though she is academically bright, the way she is painted in the book does not reflect her modern upbringing. This story, while full of interesting anecdotes on wild life (read: apes, chimpanzees etc), fails miserably in comedy, surprises and ending. All three are lacking, though Ms Manby tries.

Comedy is scattered here and there, but the way the scenes are set up, the humor is very thin and obviously amateurish. Surprises there are none and the ending, why, even before I was halfway through the book, I had predicted the ending (very accurately).

The TRUIzM
I smiled? Nope. I laughed? Nope. I cried? Nah. Maybe a little – of joy, at finally having finished this painful story that tries very hard to humor but falls flat like a big sack of potatoes. I wouldn’t put this book on the shelf in my personal library.

Kite Runner The Movie

2008-02-23T23:24:00.006+08:00

I may be biased when I do this review. Because I have read the book, and have cried oceans over it, and have had scenes from the book playing in my mind long after I am done reading, I have expected much more, if not on par, with the movie version. This hope is intensified by the favorable local review of the movie and the global acceptance.

I am, however, disappointed.

I have to be fair here – my disillusionment does not have anything to do with the actors, setting, direction, cinematography and all-film related matters. Rather, if you look at Kite Runner as the movie, it would fairly pass as a ‘good movie’. The actors do not disappoint (the aging of Baba-jan from a young to an aging, sick father is truly believable – ditto for Rahim Khan), the settings appear real (although shot in China), and the cinematography is excellent. I especially like the credits at the beginning of the movie. The artistic element, combined with such appropriate fonts, bring out the essence of the story and theme very well.

My disenchantment lies in the way the script has been modified to suit the length of a movie. Many crucial parts have been omitted, so much so that I, who have read the book, could not help but to compare the two versions. If the omissions were done subtly, perhaps I would not have noticed and may forgive. However, the omitted scenes were those that portray Amir’s many struggles and survival. These scenes are crucial as these reflected the development of Amir’s character.

I fail to empathize with Amir the Movie. Undoubtedly, I like Amir the Book better.

THE TRUIzM
You will enjoy this if you have not read the book. However, if you watch it first, and find that you like it, wait till you read the book. You will be overjoyed. Don't forget to read my review (go to older post) if you have not.

Tending Roses

2008-02-23T22:46:00.006+08:00

Author: Lisa Wingate

If Ms Wingate’s sole intention of penning this is to make us ‘stop and smell the roses’; I’d say she has succeeded.

Kate Bowman has a task no one can possibly envy – to cajole 89-year old Grandma Rose to move out of her Missouri farm to a nursing home. Although almost senile and has, on several occasions, unwittingly almost set the half-century old house on fire, Grandma Rose is a strong and stubborn character, who through her own handwritten daily dairy, has been telling Kate more about life than Kate would possibly imagine or learn from anyone else.

Kate herself does not come to the farm with no baggage. On maternity leave with an infant who has a chronic disease and a husband who is struggling with a new business, Kate is often exasperated by the emotional and financial problems. Throughout her stay at the farm and through her interactions with Grandma Rose, she is forced to re-evaluate her life and priorities.

This book is a wake-up call of sorts to me. As with Kate, I begin to rethink of my life and my priorities and if I am really doing justice to those whom I claimed I love. I especially like this from the book: ‘Maybe you should start wanting less.’

I think if we live by that mantra, we can be much happier than we are now.

Kate’s financial problem is something that we all struggle with everyday, and in that aspect, I can sympathize with her and her frustrations.

However, the flow of the book is quite slow – while characters develop fast, the pace is sluggish. Perhaps, it has to do with the setting – an old sleepy farm town in Missouri. Yawn.

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A slow-moving book with characters AND issues that you can easily identify with. To read only if you have a huge amount of patience.

Ready or Not?

2008-02-08T21:47:00.000+08:00

Author: Chris Manby

What a read. I was anxious to know the end, hurriedly devouring page after page, but as I came to the epilogue, I was very sorry that I had reached there. I wished it had continued.

Chris Manby has a gem in this book. The synopsis almost fooled me – about an ex-boyfriend coming into the live of Heidi Savage, an about-to-be wife (to someone else). I’d thought it would be one of those soppy stories where the girl would suddenly find that her true happiness lies in her ex, and not in the fiancé, and that the story would revolve mostly about her, her character development and her ultimate discovery.

But oh boy, was I wrong! There are many other characters who add the juicy bits and intricate twists. Kara, Heidi’s best friend, a single mother of a six-month old baby, comes in with her funny antics and her own discovery too. And so does Mrs Savage (Heidi’s mother). All these, and many more, does not do justice to the very brief synopsis that you find at the back of the cover.

This book is more about girl-meets-boy kind of love story – it also touches on the fears of every woman about to approach or thinking of approaching motherhood - the uncertainty of not being an adequate and able mother, the fear of being fat, the fear of breastfeeding and NOT.

Above all, Ms Manby manages to talk about this (and more, including Heidi’s experience in witnessing a birth video as she stands in as Kara’s partner) via Heidi’s feisty and witty character. The story is full of twists and plots, the dialogues are hilarious and real, the feelings appropriate and since Ms Manby is writing in first-person, I was able to follow Heidi’s train of thoughts.

The best part of this book is that I was kept to my toes till to the very end, as Heidi reveals something that I would never have expected, as it is in the very last pages of the book.

Oh boy. What a ride.

The TRUIzM

I smiled. I laughed. I cried. If you are a mother, or going to be a mother (or father), you have to read this. It addresses issues mostly associated with having children and family, finding eternal love and feeling silly lucky. As for me, I am on a hunt for more of Chris Manby’s treasures.

It's About Your Husband

2008-01-21T23:16:00.000+08:00

Author: Lauren Lipton

This is an outrageously humorous story, about a very simple and kind-hearted Californian who is out to conquer New York. Out of love and out of job, Iris Hedge sets out to find life AND employment in bustling New York City, only to find that the city has many tricks up on its sleeve for her.

Her infant and accidental debut as a spy is hilarious and oh-so-impossible, but then again, you’d forgive her because she is so darn naïve and cute and lucky to have found friends in people like Simon and the Rubicon Lady and Vicky.

Oh, and the book dispenses advises too. Want to get rid of blisters (when you wear new shoes)? Apply anti-perspirant to feet. Alleged to work. Also teaches you to mix gloss and something else to create peachy cheeks.

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If you are in need of a perk-up, or want to explore a ground that requires less thinking and demands more laughter, this is the book for you.

For more tips and info, go to http://www.laurenlipton.com

What’s In A Name

2008-01-05T23:43:00.000+08:00

Article title: What’s In A Name

Where: Recruitment, Straits Times (R56), dated 05 January 2007
Contributor: Tom Greenwood, Sustainable Brand Strategy

This is one article worth reading (and clipping & keeping, as I do) about branding. It’s pretty short, simple and the writer manages to summarize the important elements of branding in a brief and comprehensive style.

Sad though the picture that is used for the article is not quite appropriate – I almost skip the article altogether, till my eyes fell on the ‘branding’ text in one of the paragraphs.

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I’m a branding fanatic, so I’ll definitely keep a space for this in my scrapbook!

Sedap Noodles @ Clementi

2008-01-04T23:42:00.001+08:00

SEDAP NOODLE
Blk 449, Clementi Ave 3
(nearest MRT station is Clementi MRT Station).

If you are craving for noodles that are chewy and spongy, and to be served along with gurgling soup that is brimming with fresh fish balls (one plain and one stuffed), one crabstick, a bull-eye’s egg and a very generous helping of minced beef (I’m drooling already!) – oh, I have to mention that the soup is actually a mini hot pot, so your soup remains hot till you slurp the last drop – the place to satisfy your craving is at the address above.

I would usually order mine with chili and will tuck into my hot pot with additional raw chilies (I eat chili as you would suck on a sweet). This combination, with the noodles (usually, I’d order kway teow) and the steaming soup, will leave me – at the end of the meal – leaning back and feeling oh-so-contented.

The stall also serves other dishes like fish ball soup, minced chicken noodle and the assorted noodle dishes. But the highlight would definitely be the hot pot!

.: THE TRUIzM
At $3.50 per bowl of noodle/pot, it is crazy to pass by Clementi without trying it! If you manage to locate the stall, you would see some clippings that this stall has been reviewed favorably in the local Malay paper.

Unfortunately, I could not locate any pictures for this entry.

The Ugly Truth about Small Business

2008-01-04T23:02:00.000+08:00

Full title:
The Ugly Truth about Small Business
(50 Never-Saw-It-Coming Things That Can
Go Wrong... and What You Can Do about it.)
Author: Ruth King

What I like about this book is that there are many lessons to learn from and many experiences to read about. This book is segregated into two parts – Part One and Two.

Part One is a collection of the featured entrepreneurs’ stories (none of which I am familiar with). At the end of each related experience, the highlights are listed down and there’s a handy ‘what I learned’ list – very akin to an executive summary in a listed format. In addition, there’s even a segment called ‘applying the lessons to your business’ – so that new entrepreneurs do not make the same mistakes as these old-hands did. The listings are correlated to the story prior to it, thus you can easily make your references. And since most, if not all, stories are short; you learn more at a faster rate and are able to do your referencing more rapidly.

Part Two of this book is extremely handy. It summarizes perfectly and clearly what entrepreneurs can do about the things that may go wrong. My favorite is Chapter 5 – Greatest Myths of Owning a Business. Those who want to venture into business should read this first and smell the coffee!

However, due to the abruptness of each experience related in Part One, I was unable to empathize much with each character/subject. I was not able to follow their passion, their flow of thoughts and often, not understand why they did certain things in a certain way. Perhaps, not enough background (family, support etc.) is given to each one, so much so that I could not comprehend their outlook in life/business at times. Furthermore, I was not thoroughly familiar with the industries featured, thus was not able to ‘appreciate the lessons’.

.: The TRUIzM
An excellent book for those who are into quick learning and have less patience in reading. I did had a hard time ‘getting into gear’ when I was reading Part One, for the reasons mentioned above.

Ummah Films

2008-01-02T15:15:00.001+08:00

Ummah Films

http://www.ummahfilms.com

This is an excellent site that preaches, albeit in a very different manner. Light-headed, UF will leave its audience smiling and laughing at the comical antics of its spokesperson, Baba Ali.

The design of the site is clean, neat and almost flawless, and the consistency of its theme and look is carried out from the website to the blog. Now, this is crucial (to those who know the importance of branding) as this will breed familiarity and awareness.

Baba Ali is a humorous chap – not for an inch that he looks like a preacher. Or maybe he isn’t. A convert to Islam, he and his crew spread the religion via their amusing videos. The chic editing of the videos is proof that much thought have been put into the storylines and punchy scripts.

Based on my personal experience, ordering the goods online has been a breeze. Last year, Hubs and I ordered a long-sleeved black UF T-shirt each (mine is size S and it fits perfectly). It came through the mail within the reasonable time frame and freebies (a pair of black rubber I AM A MUSLIM bracelets) were also thrown in.

The TRUIzM
If you want to know more about Islam, and laugh at the same time, this is the site to go. Or, if you need some perking up, point your cursor to the link below. After all, laughter IS the best medicine.

http://www.ummahfilms.com

The Fountain of Wealth

2008-01-01T10:57:00.000+08:00

The Fountain of Wealth

Suntec City Convention Centre, Singapore

This has been accorded the status of "World's Largest Fountain" in the 1998 edition of the Guinness Book of Records. I would say that is an achievement, considering the size of Singapore - an island so small but yet is the home of one of the world’s largest fountain.

On 30 December 2007, I have had the chance to visit this Fountain and watch the much acclaimed laser show (8pm slot). While the Fountain itself is awesome, the laser show is a huge disappointment.

The laser, on its own, was amazing. However, it was apparent that no thoughts had been put in place to the storyboard (if any). The laser projected a series of random images that had no connection between one another. It started with an image of a circular ball coming out from a pottery-making equipment, and then morphed into a dinosaur. Next, came the earth and the moon and a telephone (!) and some other forgettable images. There was a sequence that was repeated many a time – a kind of a passage going through a door.

Oh yes, it was colourful alright, but perhaps, if the management could put one and one together and create a storyline, it would be an immerse improvement. Or perhaps, there is a story lurking behind those images – however, the continuity and flow are not apparent, that I quite lost it.

The TRUIzM
If you happen to be around Suntec around the laser time shows, do catch it. However, if you go down there just for the laser show, it’s a big waste of time. Thank goodness Suntec City is a happening shopping centre and the Fountain is definitely an eye-feast. So, I guess, all is not lost.

http://www.sunteccity.com.sg/fountain/index.htm

2007-12-30T00:34:00.001+08:00

Author: Dean Koontz

Only die-hard Dean Koontz fans will like this one.

I’m not actually into Koontz but I read books by almost anyone. The first few chapters of this book are actually gripping and very often, I would be reading at the edge of my seat. However, as the story (or lack of) unfolds, I find myself wondering – is this guy kidding or what?

This is a fiction, thus I will not spoil the ‘fun’ for you if you choose to pick this book up and begin the literacy journey. As mentioned, only die-hard fans of Koontz can appreciate the drama and plot of this book. I simply cannot.

.:The TRUIzM

To attempt only if you are a fan. Else, you will end up frustrated, with the almost comical and out-of-the-world plot. The title is good, though, as a gift for your other half.

How To Get Rich

2007-12-30T00:15:00.000+08:00

Author: Donald Trump

(with Meredith McIver)

I’m a fan of ‘The Apprentice’ and I’ll let you know that yes, I’m a fan of Donald Trump too. I have read his biographies, his books and somehow, I can rattle off his achievements, feats and even the names of his children.

But I’ll also tell you the truth. If you get this book with the main objective on how to get rich – well, forget it. The content of this book does not steer you in that direction at all – it will, however, tell you how to work smarter and many other things which, at least to me, are already acknowledged (the importance of staying focused, branding, being optimistic etc.) but hard to maintain.

Regardless, this book is handy, abrupt and quick to the point. Each chapter in Part 1 is almost a summary. Reading is a breeze and Mr Trump (and Ms Meredith McIver) makes it energetic and comprehensive by using simple words and being brief but straightforward. You will also be allowed a glimpse on how Mr Trump works his office and business.

.: The TRUIzM
Do not be fooled by the title. However, reading it – if you are a fan of Donald Trump or if you read for the sake of reading – is an enjoyable activity.

The Kite Runner (The Book)

2007-12-29T00:53:00.000+08:00

Author: Khaleed Hosseini
http://www.khaledhosseini.com/

I am glad the Kite Runner is a book of fiction. I know of at least 3 persons who have shed tears over the book. I’m one of them.

Since this is a fiction, I will not commit the sin of Spoiling the End (pg 357). I will let you find out the many twists and turns of this anecdote on your own, set from Afghanistan to California, from state of affairs like Taliban to adoption.

I do, however, would like to point out certain things here:-

1./ The passage of time was not clear in this book. When I moved on to Chapter 10, it was not apparent that I had already moved on to another timeframe. The subtitle ‘March 1981’ was not evident and I had to make my own assumption of Amir’s age at that time. Similarly, throughout the story, Amir’s age was not stated clearly. It would certainly help readers to know the narrator’s age so as to better understand his train of thoughts at that point of time.

2./ Despite of what happened to Hassan, due to Amir’s cowardice, Amir still lived on to live a life full of blessings, in certain aspects. He was away from the chaos in Afghanistan, was successful in his career of choice and his partner in life was remarkably kind and understanding. At times, I do not know whether to sympathize with him (his burden of guilt) or to despise him (his easy carefree life as compared to Hassan’s).

3./ I may be wrong to assume this but when I read that Hassan wanted a son to ‘carry on my father’s name’ (pg 206), I’d imagine Hassan’s unborn child would be his father’s namesake. However, this was not the case (pg 211). I was confused.

4./ I thoroughly like the metaphors and descriptives used in this book. An excellent example was the following sentence on page 197: ‘Then, a thing made of skin and bones pretending to be Rahim Khan opened the door.’ And on page 185, the difference between a man’s and a woman’s reproductive system (plumbing system) is very humorously detailed.

5./ My favourite part is when Amir was waiting at the hospital for news on Sohrab after his (Sohrab's) incident. Amir was at a loss, he didn't know what to do for very long minutes. Suddenly, it dawned to him that that was the time he should be facing west and pleading to God, begging Him. The author did such a fine work in reflecting Amir's desperation and his eventual realisation to God's existence - I could not resist reading those paragraphs again and again. As a Muslim, I can identify with Amir's source of solace in his hour of need.

THE TRUIzM

If there is one last book that you have to read to close off this Roman year, I’ll highly recommend the Kite Runner. The strong story with its many plots and twists will ensure a thrilling roller-coaster ride, and will make you appreciate and embrace life and last but not least, the existence of God.

The Kite Runner (The Site)

2007-12-29T00:17:00.000+08:00

http://www.kiterunnermovie.com/

I was a designer previously and I view sites albeit critically.

As the kite sails through this site, it catches my breath along as well. This is an exceptional metamorphic site – having a bird-eye’s view of the ground as the background is an excellent idea to portray the movement of the kite. As you move your mouse, the scene moves along as well – as if you are the kite floating around.

Each link loads without much fuss and time and featuring a kite in almost all links is a good continuity move. The soundtrack is appropriate and blends very well with the theme of the site.

My only grouse is that most of the texts are too tight in their leadings – making eligibility a bit straining.

.: The TRUIzM

Will I watch the movie? I do not know – one person who cried over the book did mention that she may not be able to bear the movie. I suspect I may fall in the same category. In any case, I’ve always been a reader than a watcher. Regardless, this promotional site is an excellent example of portraying messages accurately, creatively and without any fuss.

Girl's Leg Caught in MRT Platform Gap

2007-12-29T00:13:00.000+08:00

TODAY Paper – Friday, 28 December 2007.
Girl's leg caught in MRT platform gap
By Lin Yanqin

An except:-
According to the girl's friends who were with her, a fellow commuter called the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) while they tried to comfort her and get her out. "It was very crowded and we kept getting pushed back. People were crowding around and trying to look and take photos of her," said a friend, one of her schoolmates at Northview Secondary School.

I suspect the ‘people who were crowding’ and ‘trying’ to ‘take photos of her’ are active Stompers (http://www.stomp.com.sg/). Would you people please take a break?

I Look, I See

2007-12-22T20:26:00.001+08:00

Produced by
Yusuf Islam, Friends & Children

A couple of months ago, while browsing at a shop at Larkin (JB, Malaysia), we came across this CD. At MR19.90, it was a steal.

My own boys (aged 3 and 4) initially enjoyed ‘Your Mother’ (written by Yusuf Islam). With such simple lyric, this song reaches out to pre-school aged children and with such an addictive rhythm, it is definitely impressionable.

Excerpt from ‘Your Mother’:-

Who should I give my love to?
My respect and my honour to?
Who should I pay good mind to – after Allah
And Rasul-Allah?
Comes your mother
Who next? Your mother
Who next? Your mother
And then your father

Others are just as powerful and inspirational. ‘Months in Islam’ makes it easy to remember and recite the months in the Islamic calendar, in chronological order. My personal favorite is ‘Our Guide is the Quran’. The vocal is absolutely mesmerizing. But then again, almost all the tracks featured here boast of powerful vocals and very clear diction of the Arabic language. It is very soothing to hear and calms the nerves, especially during driving.

Yusuf Islam himself sang the title song ‘I Look, I see’ - another track with easy lyric and a catchy tune. And there’s a disclaimer: The girls on this album were below the age of maturity at the time of recording.

My only grouse is that this CD is pretty short. With 9 songs, before you even knew it, you are already listening to the same song twice.

.: The TRUIzM

I have no regrets on spending money on this CD. It is a good buy (where I got it from, with the different currency) and my entire family loves it.

For more information, surf over to http://www.jamalrecords.com/ilookisee

Cat Stevens Becomes Yusuf Islam

2007-12-21T22:50:00.000+08:00

I was intrigued to find out more about Yusuf Islam after purchasing his ‘I Look, I See’ CD. My boys are crazy about the CD. Almost every other time we are in the car, the CD would be turned on and the boys would sing in unison.

Of course, I know who YI is. Vaguely, I knew about his musician beginning. But one night, I wanted to know more.

I came across this video. And I spent an hour just watching. The content is comprehensive and the video runs smoothly. The only irritation is the constant images (or flashbacks or close-ups of YI) being played again and again (after commercial breaks).

Note: To activate the video above, press SPACEBAR or ENTER after page refreshes. Else, proceed to the actual link: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=6157965900354777626

.: The TRUIzM

If you want to know more about YI, you need only to view this video out of the many hundreds out there.

Women’s Venture, Women’s Visions

2007-12-21T13:44:00.000+08:00

Author: Shoshana Alexander
Format: Paperback, 214 pages
Published: 1997, USA

I can’t take it.

Before I was even done with the very first chapter, I was almost ready to throw in the towel. I just cannot follow the flow of the narrator (first is Lynn Winter, owner of Paradise Café in Kentucky, USA). The content is extremely superficial, and it failed to engage me as the reader. I failed to sympathize with Ms Winter or follow her along on her trip of passion to open her first café.

The narration is too abrupt - in one instance, somebody out of the blue just called her for a position, and coincidentally, it was someone from a place which she was vying to work at but had no courage to apply. An excerpt (pg 14):-

‘How in the world did you ever get my name?’ I asked her.
‘I don’t really know.’ she said.

Hello, is this a book on miracles or women’s ventures?

A good book, regardless of fiction or non, is one that is able to draw its readers to feel ’emotionally related’ to the characters. Good authors should know how to create that magical link.

.: The TRUIzM

This is one book not worth spending your time reading it.

The Kite Runner

2007-12-20T21:44:00.000+08:00

Author: Khaled Hosseini

At least two people have mentioned this title in less than 5 days. Apparently, this is a lead. I shall work on getting a copy soon. Watch out for the review.

Confessions of a Serial Entrepreneur

2007-12-18T01:15:00.001+08:00

Full title: Confessions of a Serial Entrepreneur
(Why I Can’t Stop Starting Over)
Author: Stuart Skorman
(with Catherine Guthrie)
Format: Hardcover, 193 pages
Published: 2007, USA

This was my second entrepreneurship book in a row.

Once again, I was introduced to this book by Hubs, who seemed to be chain-reading on books of this genre. I was in the middle of SMEE when he was devouring CSE. Once again I asked: Is the book any good? He replied: Yes.

Paused. Looked over to the SMEE in my hand. Then he elaborated: Better than that. That only gives you the overview, while this (indicating CSE in his hand) details how the problems are solved.

Ho-hum. Well, as soon as I am done with SMEE, I jumped over to CSE. And oh boy, what a ride it was!

Stuart Skorman, together with Catherine Guthrie, is an extremely gifted entrepreneur and storyteller. He details his journeys and forays into the entrepreneur world as one would relate a magical fairy tale with thrilling plots. His narrations are easy to comprehend, very light and humorous in many areas. It has been very easy to follow him along as he journeyed through the various start-ups and the failures and successes that come along the way.

Skorman’s resume and very varied work/life experiences are very impressive and colorful. From managing a rock band, he then went on to try to salvage (which he failed eventually) his dying family business. Next, he discovered fitness and well-being and he preached healthy and organic foods. This interest and passion led to an on/off relationship with his employer/mentor. After that stint, he decided to rediscover himself by going cross-country on his bike. His experiences and encounters with colorful characters that he met during his bike tour unknowingly prepared him to be an entrepreneur.

His first Midas touch was an video empire. Skorman was intelligent enough to identify the needs and wants of a certain neighborhood town and he went on relentlessly to fill that need. He even went as far as to CREATE a need that his customers did not even know exist (his movie matchmaking).

He departed from his video business a millionaire but he realized early that he could not just retire. He was itching too much. He became a professional poker player – an experience that he claimed has taught him on how to identify risks and when to take it and when to bluff your way out.

Skorman also took advantage of the dot.com bubble and within three years, his Internet dot.com company was sold for $100 million.

Of course, all these successes are not without the failures and miseries. He also relates the reasons behind the downfall of another dot.com company and the constant friction that he had with his then-mentor during his stint in the health foods industry.

He gives the insight on how and why he thinks this way and that – at that point of time – and his explanations are very simple and straightforward. He often injects humor in his tales that I almost forgot that this is a non-fiction book to start with!

At the end of each chapter, Skorman would put together a bunch of useful entrepreneurship tips, from the importance of having mentors to making the transition from a big company to a start-up.

I’ve tried to pull out a couple of juicy gist here and there, but I realize that this book does not allow me to. I realize very quickly, because of the way the narration is being told as in a story, I am unable to identify certain highlights. One highlight is correlated to another in the next chapter. There is no way to break these down.

.: The TRUIzM

This book is a bonus – to aspiring entrepreneurs and to bookworms. As I fall in the latter category, I am hooked on it since Page 1. And even if I do not fall into the first category (yet), I find that the tips and lessons that Skorman dispenses and teaches are very easy to follow, straightforward and idiot-proof.

This is one book that you cannot do without.

Secrets of Male Entrepreneurs Exposed!

2007-12-17T00:13:00.000+08:00

Author: Dale Beaumont
Price: S$28.50*

Format: Paperback, 290 pages

Published: 2005, Australia

*http://store.attributes.com.sg/

I’m not really one who digs into books like self-help, self-development and even about being entrepreneurs. Hubs was the one who was reading this book and I happened to glance at the contents now and then as he read it on our way to work. The little glimpses that I got revealed a very comprehensive content, especially for a book that ‘talks businesses’. I asked Hubs: Is the book any good? He replied: Yes, not bad.

It is very seldom that I, an avid reader with a very strong reading stamina, would spend my time reading about a subject, when it comes to non-fiction topics like entrepreneurs and entrepreneurships.

However, SMEE cajoles to me from the very beginning and I have to admit, I am hooked since Page 1.

As the synopsis says it all, this book is really about a bunch of successful entrepreneurs who ‘made it in life’. The subject is pretty normal but what attracts me most is the way the contents are being presented. It is in a Q & A format, which makes it very much easier to digest and the content is very layman-ish – meaning, even a person like me, whose interest and knowledge in entrepreneurship is just 3 inches above the bottom line, can understand perfectly well.

(EAIIB should take a peep at the layout of this book – both books use the same Q & A format, but the former fails miserably in terms of visual clarity)

You do not need a dictionary to understand this book nor do you need a very high IQ to comprehend the contents and tips. The layout is pleasing and I must say, having the Q & A format is a winner in this case. Very easy to read, digest and identify with.

The size of the book is also handy – not too thick or small for you to make notations and not too bulky that it cannot be kept in your standard sling bag.

And oh, among the 15 entrepreneurs featured, one of them is local boy, Douglass Foo, owner of Apex-Pal, the company who owns the popular Sakae Sushi chain of restaurants.

And yes, I do have to add though – out of the 15 stories of success here, I skip one. It’s about Micheal Twelftree. He owns a successful winery. Why I skipped it? Wine. You get?

Alright now, come.. it’s time to dissect the contents even further.

Relatively, the messages these entrepreneurs have are pretty similar – you must have passion in what you do, you must build excellent branding and you must be good to your staff. Some of the peeps featured are those who practically started from scratch, and there are others who are lucky to have had a good foundation at the beginning.

My favorite entrepreneur is Justin Herald, founder of Attitude Gear and Intimidate, who is now one of the most sought-after speakers in the field of business and motivational talks. He started his multi-million empire with just $50. Lucky? Go on, read on (pgs 89 – 106).

Prior to that, in view of my extensive design background, I can relate very easily to Siimon Reynolds (pgs 71 – 88), who made it big in advertising, before moving onto being a speaker on marketing ad success principles. His hard climb to success in the advertising world started with only his guts and he made it all the way up solely based on his talents and hardwork and his ability not to accept a ‘No’.

I do find that, although relatively, the core message of the book is similar, there are some opposing views between a couple of them. Jim Penman, founder of the Jim’s Group, said that although his empire is worth millions now, he still chooses to drive a 22-year-old car. His reason is simple – he does not see the need to drive a better one. He is one who is not into extravagant lifestyle (pg 51). Now, you go over to page 102, you will find Justin Herald telling you not to trust people who earn $200k per annum but yet drive ‘crappy old cars’ (pg 102). Alright now, who to trust now?

You go to page 136 and you will find Tom Potter’s (founder of Eagle Boys) 7 top tips on how to become a successful entrepreneur. Tip no. 2 advises you to ‘take plenty of time’ to ‘write your business plan and research it thoroughly’. Once again, Justin Herald (in pg 97) – when asked to describe his style of doing business – maintains that he does not do business plans, he does not do profit and losses and he does not do budget nor forecast anything. To him, it’s ‘easy as it goes’ approach – taking each day as it comes.

Now, you have to remember these two are very successful in their businesses and they are dispensing very different advises on how to achieve that success.

Scratch.

Now, here are some useful highlights of the book:-

1/ Siimon Reynolds says you have nothing to lose at the beginning, so do not be afraid to ask for anything – ‘just ask’ (pg 75). Jim Zavos (founder of EzyDVD) said the exact same thing (pg 251).

2/ Siimon Reynolds advises you NOT to do a marketing degree – you can learn so much more (and in so little time) from books (pg 81) – which I totally agree. He also mentioned the importance of having mentors.

3/ Justin Herald says that you have to create awareness for your products, in order to generate demand. For example, he got his mates to ring up shops to ask for his Attitude outfits BEFORE he even created the clothing line (pg 93). Such brilliant tactic.

4/ The difference and definition of patent, trademark, copyright and registration are clearly stated (pg 234), courtesy of lawyer Trevor Choy, an expert in IP laws.

5/ This should be a shout-out to most local companies of a certain race – the importance of branding, as according to Tim Pethick, founder of nudie (pg 178). Branding is not just a name and logo – it involves a growing (hopefully healthy) relationship between your products and your consumers. Your product or service must connect to your consumers emotionally.

.: The TRUIzM

If you are an aspiring entrepreneur, do not borrow this book from your neighborhood library. BUY it. KEEP it. Make it your MANUAL.

Otherwise, it is a very enjoyable read.

English As It Is Broken

2007-12-17T00:04:00.000+08:00

Price: S$7.50

Format: Paperback, 196 pages

Published: 2007, Singapore

.: On the Surface
Produced by The Straits Times in conjunction with the Speak Good English Movement, and in collaboration with the National Library Board, the Ministry of Education and Panpac Education Private Limited. Touted as THE BOOK to read if you want to improve your English.

.: What Have Been Said
From http://www.selectbooks.com.sg > Presented in a Question and Answer format, many vivid examples - some hilarious, some hair-raising - taken from advertising billboards and other public signs around the island are used to illustrate where the error lies. The cases are divided into three broad groups, each highlighting pitfalls in English usage, vocabulary and grammar. The panel of experts are made up of specialists from the Ministry of Education, who addressed these errors in a weekly column of the local newspaper, The Sunday Times, as part of Singapore's Speak Good English Movement.

.: My Take
Listen. What do you expect from a book that has been produced in conjunction with a government campaign? Surely, this book must be a must-read and a must-have, at least for students who struggle with real English and the well-used Singlish. In addition, this book is a collection of queries and ‘sightings’ taken from a very popular local site, Stomp. The production of the book itself is enough to generate much hype and a big following, considering its source.

I’ve taken a look at the Stomp site, where the contents came from. I read, absorbed, scrolled up and scrolled down. Reading is a breeze – both queries and answers are well laid out, with big-sized fonts and different treatment for easier distinction (bold for query and normal for answer). Furthermore, the site is peppered with a myriad of colours and ‘sightings’ (uploaded pictures for emphasis) are clear and engaging, especially when you really have to look more closely than usual at the contents.

I have to admit – if the book has not been published, I would not be enticed to sneak a peek at the site. So, I do not really know, if this book is made popular due to the site, or it is the vice versa. At least, it is the latter for me.

Content-wise, I do find it interesting and yes, I do know more than I did after reading the book. I know now when to use ‘terminal’ and ‘interchange’ (see page 80) and I learn new words like ‘tautology’ (see page 49). I have come across many tautologies in my everyday readings, and prior to learning about tautology, I have not thought much about it.

This book also enlightens me on how to use the word ‘appreciate’. My work requires me to communicate very regularly via email and letters and I use this word at least 5 times a day. I was always irritated whenever any of my co-workers used the word in this context – ‘I would appreciate it if you would …’.

My take – what did ‘it’ refer to? So redundant. Often, I would delete the ‘it’. To me, it should be ‘I would appreciate if you would …’.

Well, page 26 tells me that the word ‘appreciate’ cannot stand on its own – it must always be accompanied with something. And in this context, ‘it’ is the most ideal.

Sigh.

As mentioned earlier, content-wise, this book does not fail to deliver. To me, whenever I learn more than I did prior to reading it, any book is worth its salt.

However, I am very disappointed at the presentation of the content. Very unlike the online version, the book is (of course) monotonous and ‘sightings’ are monochrome.

Each query is headed by a number and a title. Beneath it, a very funny Q and an equally funny A pose themselves as acronyms for Questions and Answers. Granted, the query is being highlighted with a greyish round-cornered rectangles as the backdrop. But this does not happen to all queries. Take a look at number 42 on page 89. I failed to see the funny Q but was greeted with the funny A on the next page. Which query does this answer belong to?

Scratch.

Have a look at number 60 on page 30. Read the last sentence. Let me quote here, ‘If you like somebody less than you like Math, you would say, “I like

Yes? What’s that?

Have I stopped suddenly? In a middle of a sentence? Afraid not – I am merely printing EXACTLY what I see on the page.

Yes! The sentence hangs! That’s it!

Sigh.

Another one – take a look at page 67, under Your Say. Let me quote here, ‘Where Americans say “parking lot”, Singaporeans say “carpark”. A “lot” in Singaporese is an individual parking space.”

Spot anything? This is a book that is supposed to highlight the errors of English and well, excuse me, did I spot a spelling error there?

Sigh.

I also cannot make the sense of the Your Say, The Experts Reply, Your Say, The Experts Reply (see pages 66 & 67). Where’s the head? Where’s the tail? If you can figure the maze, drop me a line.

I do wonder, why couldn’t the YS and TER be numbered, just like the others.

.: The TRUIzM

A good enjoyable read, but a major disappointment in terms on layout (lack of creative emphasis) and flow of contents. Mistakes as listed above (especially spelling errors and ‘hanging sentences’) should not occur at all in published books. Where’s the proofreading?

Should you buy? You are better off reading the contents from the site. If you need to take notes, print the pages that matter most and do your notations there. Reading monotonous page after page is a sure-way to put you off English, at least temporarily.

Definition of TRUIzM

2007-12-16T23:09:00.000+08:00

TRUIzM is a tweak from ‘truism’ – a noun, which simply means ‘a self-evident truth’. The Z stands instead of the S reflect the unique-ness and exclusivity of this site.

Be fooled no more, because here is where the truth lies (!).

So, you have heard of this book and that article and those clippings. These publications are made ‘famous’, at times, by their contents, and at times, by their authors. Occasionally, readers too made these ‘worth their salt’, if any.

But have you really read through and think deep? Are the contents worth the price, or the amount of glory they generate? Are you one of those who depend on reviews alone to judge a book by its cover?

Here, TRUIzM will attempt to show you the actual grain of each salt that is said to be worth the amount of glory generated by these popular writings. Here, I will peel each page and list down what is right, what is wrong, what is fabulous and what is horrendous. I will also do justice – I will tell you, in layman terms, if a book is worth reading AND buying and if an article is worth reading AND be passed on. I will uncover just what made these writings deserve such high honours. Or not.

So, if you have anything that you would like an honest opinion of, send those over to me. I will show you the TRUIzM way.